so i kno....

im suppose 2 write about luv but this deals kinda wit luv....ok so im a lil pissed bc a person i kno has a status sayin that he "wants to get married.r there ne good women around?no kids (no offense)." so that makes me wonder....how many guys r that closed minded??I know so many wonderful, strong mothers who are single. Why is having a child a point against a woman? I mean honestly, me myself, am a single mother. There are so many woman who come in contact with worthless men that catch them wen they are naive, or are "slicktalking" (like my gma say). I mean why does a woman falling in love (9 times outta 10) being committed and thinking of a future with this guy her fault. Accidents do happen and i must say my daughter is the best accident I ever had. Being a mother does not down grade the fact that you are a good woman. I think it upgrades you.

Being a mother (a good one) means that you are independent and can take care of a whole human being. It is your responsibility to raise a woman (well in my case) you have to prepare this person for what lies ahead........life. So if i was a guy and saw that a young woman, n college, has a job, and takes care of her child I would jump on that.....u know y? because that mean she is equally on my level. She can do what she has to do for the ones that she loves and that could include me.SMH at narrow mindedness!